I am often approached by couple’s planning a small private ceremony with, perhaps , 20 or so guests. Given that it is such an intimate gathering, the bride and groom are looking for ways to draw the guests into the ceremony. One nice idea I like to mention is a “Blessing” (or passing) of the rings. The ritual is simple, but powerful. We place the wedding bands in a lovely box or decorative pouch (likewise, rings could be tied together with a beautiful ribbon) to be handed from guest to guest, before the ceremony begins , maybe during a period of music and reflection. Each guest holds the rings, and silently offers a prayer or wish for the couple. Each honored guest as “warmed” the ring before it is exchanged during the ceremony.
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